Monday, January 11, 2010

Marriage

Me & hubs have not been on the same level recently. Basically I think we hate each other and I am not sure why. Blah. and Bleh. Because it sucks and makes me want to eat and hibernate in my bed.

I know it will get better, we have been together for going on 10 years so this is not the first time we have been "off" but I just wish it would hurry up and be over.

I wish i could "therapize" us and me and him and make it all better but life does not really work that way. So instead he will play his video games and I will blog and when our mutual stresses calm down we will like each other again. I hope.

2 comments:

  1. I'm glad you are blogging again! I've been with my husband for 10 years too and there have definately been "trying" times in our marriage...it takes hard work to constantly put up with another person with different..whatever.... (goals, values, ideas, habits) than you have!

    I always just try to look at the big picture. I am committed to him and our family...what can I do to make the situation better? Sometimes its as simple as swallowing my pride and letting him have it his way for awhile, and then sometimes he does that for me too. It really IS hard though! *hugs*

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